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    Have you ever heard people say that they tend to be more of a right-brain or left-brain thinkers? From books to television programs, you have probably heard the term
  mentioned  numerous times, or perhaps you have even taken an online test to determine  which type best describes you.
    Do different parts of the brain really control different bodily and mental functions? Over the years, a theory that has   gained  in popularity is that the right brain and the left brain are responsible   for different modes of thought and that the way in which side of his brain works more actively.
    People who rely more   heavily    on the right half of their brain tend to be more imaginative and spontaneous. They are interested in patterns, shapes and sizes, for the right is associated with   artistic  ability like singing, painting, writing poetry, ect. Left-brain dominated people are quite opposite    in the way they think. They tend to be more logical and   analytical    in their thinking and usually stand out in mathematics and word skills.
      While the different functions of the two brain parts may have been   distorted        and exaggerated by popular psychology, understanding your strengths and weaknesses in certain areas can help you develop better ways to learn and study. For example, if you are usually stumped   in trying to follow verbal instructions, an activity often cited as a right-brain characteristic, you can benefit from writing down directions and developing better organization skills.
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  I was once in a relationship with a woman who was the most brilliant, creative and driven person I’d ever known. I told her these things often because she didn’t see herself this way, despite achieving great success and acclaim in her professional field. She was also gorgeous     and sexy, though she seemed not to realize this either, so I told her these things too. But while I thought it was more important to praise her brilliance, it seemed to mean more to her that she was   considered  attractive.
  My experience with this girlfriend exemplifies a common phenomenon in life-when it come
To complimenting a woman, men often walk a very difficult line. Of course,  context    matters. In a professional setting, talking about appearance is often inappropriate, but at a singles club,, it may be important. She will be very pleased if a man thinks her clothes and accessories   are pretty, or her hair looks wonderful. However, things in between these two cases are unclear. Women have every right to be recognized and appreciated   for their intelligence and creativity. But at the same time, they want to be admired for their looks as well, for example, their perfect skin complexion  and elegant outfits.
  Unfortunately, most guys don’t understand this. If we receive compliments from women, they’re usually about our achievements, not our looks. Most of us don’t expect a woman to tell us how handsome   or sexy we are, and some of us would find it hard to regard such a comment  as sincere. 
  I’m not saying it’s very hard to be a guy these days. It is important for every man to understand how to treat women with both respect and admiration   . but as far as the right balance of these two is concerned, we really have no frame of reference, especially when it comes to looks.   
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In some urban centers, workaholism (工作狂) is so common that people do not consider it unusual: They accept the lifestyle as normal. Government workers in Washington D. C. ,for example, frequently   work 60 to 70 hours a week. They don’t do this because they have to do; they do it because they want to.
Workaholism can be a serious problem. True workaholics, being deeply immersed    in their work, allow themselves little or no time to take breaks. They like to work without being  disrupted   , and they probably don’t know how to relax.
  But is workaholism always bad? Perhaps not. There are people who work well under stress . Besides, some studies show that many workaholics have great energy and interest in their own  sphere   . Their work is so pleasurable that they are actually very happy. For most workaholics, work and entertainment are the same thing. Their work changes   them, keeping them busy and genuinely engaged.
  Why do workaholics enjoy doing their job so much? Of course they get paychecks from it, but it is hard to  quantify   the pleasure with money. It offers more than financial security. Psychologists claim that work gives people an identity and provides them with self-confidence. People have a feeling of satisfaction when they administrate    a business well or complete a challenging piece of work. In addition, most jobs provide a socially acceptable way for people to meet others. So, though some people are compulsive about their work, their addiction   seems to be a safe or even an advantageous one. They feel empty and incomplete when they are involves in activities not related to work.

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