克拉克的55条班规
《优秀是教出来的》(“The Essential 55”)的作者克拉克(Ron Clark)老师年仅二十八岁,是全美最佳教师奖得主,是唯一被美国总统接见过三次的小学老师,已荣获“全美最佳教师奖”。他教过的学校,学生都来自最贫困的家庭,学校的资源也不丰富。但凭着他的热情与本书所介绍的“基本五十五条”,只要被他教过的学生,成绩一定会突飞猛进,气质也会变得彬彬有礼。
1、与大人应对,要有礼貌,有分寸
Rule 1 When responding to any adult, you must answer by saying “Yes ma’am” or “No sir.” Just nodding your head or saying any other form of yes or no is not acceptable.
2、与人互动,眼睛要看着对方的眼睛
Rule 2 Make eye contact. When someone is speaking, keep your eyes on him or her at all times. If someone makes a comment, turn and face that person.
3、别人有好表现,要替他高兴
Rule 3 If someone in the class wins a game or does something well, we will congratulate that person. Claps should be at least three seconds in length with the full part of both hands meeting in a manner that will give the appropriate clap volume.
要对游戏获胜者或把某事做得特别出的人表示祝贺。鼓掌至少持续3秒钟,两个手掌充分接触,以便掌声足够响。
“一个老师面对全班37名学生,要想关注所有的学生、表扬所有值得鼓励的事,这几乎是不可能的,而让同学们彼此之间相互鼓励就容易多了。”——看人家多会“偷懒”。这个老师在公布学生成绩的时候,搞的也象国外重大比赛发奖一样,大声、高声、长声,特刺激、特煽动。孩子们都能从中获得无穷的快乐和动力。“学生们整天盼望着这样的时刻。”
要对游戏获胜者或把某事做得特别出的人表示祝贺。鼓掌至少持续3秒钟,两个手掌充分接触,以便掌声足够响。
“一个老师面对全班37名学生,要想关注所有的学生、表扬所有值得鼓励的事,这几乎是不可能的,而让同学们彼此之间相互鼓励就容易多了。”——看人家多会“偷懒”。这个老师在公布学生成绩的时候,搞的也象国外重大比赛发奖一样,大声、高声、长声,特刺激、特煽动。孩子们都能从中获得无穷的快乐和动力。“学生们整天盼望着这样的时刻。”
4、尊重别人的发言与想法
Rule 4 During discussions, respect other students’ comments, opinions, and ideas. When possible, make statements like, “I agree with John, and I also feel that…” or “I disagree with Sarah. She made a good point I feel that…” or “I think Victor made an excellent observation, and it made me realize…”
很多时候“我们不同意别人的观点,可又苦于没有一种很轻松的氛围能让我们把满脑子的想法自由地表达出来。” “担心一旦自己的想法自由地表达出来,别人会怎么看,自己会不会遭到嘲笑、贬低和忽略。”
克拉克先生的办法是:“在讨论问题的时候,要对其他同学的评论、观点和想法表示尊重。要尽可能地这样说:“我同意约翰的观点,同时我也感到……” “我不同意沙拉的看法,尽管她抓住了问题的核心,但我觉得……”或者“我认为维可多的观察真是太精彩了,它让我意识到……
简单地说,就是:尊重别人,注意讲话技巧。核心是要懂得尊重人。而“尊重人”,则是个大原则、大观念了。它可以说含概了前面详细提到的所有教育细节。
我认为,教育孩子时,要注意大原则的把握。大原则把握了,其他细节会很自然地理解、领悟。心里有了强烈的尊重他人的观念,在做事的细节上就会“本该如此”。
感悟到“大观念”是重要,可是简单的、一味的向孩子反复灌输“要尊重人”,孩子能明白吗?也许我们传统的教育太注重大道理而忽视了具体细节,而这些细节看起来乱七八糟的小节,也许正是对我们最有帮助的。)
克拉克先生的办法是:“在讨论问题的时候,要对其他同学的评论、观点和想法表示尊重。要尽可能地这样说:“我同意约翰的观点,同时我也感到……” “我不同意沙拉的看法,尽管她抓住了问题的核心,但我觉得……”或者“我认为维可多的观察真是太精彩了,它让我意识到……
简单地说,就是:尊重别人,注意讲话技巧。核心是要懂得尊重人。而“尊重人”,则是个大原则、大观念了。它可以说含概了前面详细提到的所有教育细节。
我认为,教育孩子时,要注意大原则的把握。大原则把握了,其他细节会很自然地理解、领悟。心里有了强烈的尊重他人的观念,在做事的细节上就会“本该如此”。
感悟到“大观念”是重要,可是简单的、一味的向孩子反复灌输“要尊重人”,孩子能明白吗?也许我们传统的教育太注重大道理而忽视了具体细节,而这些细节看起来乱七八糟的小节,也许正是对我们最有帮助的。)
5、自己有什么好表现,不要炫耀,输给别人也不要生气
Rule 5 If you win or do well at something do not brag. If you lose, do not show anger. Instead, say something like, “I really enjoyed the competition, and I look forward to playing you again,” or “good game,” or don’t say anything at all. To show anger or sarcasm, such as “I wasn’t playing hard anyway” or “You really aren’t that good,” shows weakness.
6、如果别人问你问题,你也回问他问题
Rule 6 If you are asked a question in conversation, you should ask a question in return.
Me: “Did you have a nice weekend?”
You: “Yes, I had a great time. My family and I went shopping. What about you? Did you have a nice weekend?”
It is only polite to show others that you are just as interested in them as they are in you.
Me: “Did you have a nice weekend?”
You: “Yes, I had a great time. My family and I went shopping. What about you? Did you have a nice weekend?”
It is only polite to show others that you are just as interested in them as they are in you.
7、打喷嚏、咳嗽或者打嗝都要说对不起
Rule 7 “When you cough or sneeze or burp, it is appropriate to turn your head away from others and cover your mouth with the full part of your hand. Using a fist is not acceptable. Afterward, you should say, “Excuse me.”
8、不可以有不礼貌的小动作
Rule 8 “Do not smack your lips, tusk, roll your eyes, or show disrespect with gestures.”
9、别人送你任何东西,都要说谢谢
Rule 9 “Always say thank you when I give you something. If you do not say it within 3 seconds after receiving the item, I will take it back. There is no excuse for not showing appreciation.”
10、接到奖品和礼物,不可以嫌弃
Rule 10 “When you are given something from someone, never insult that person by making negative comments about the gift or by insinuating that it wasn’t appreciated”
11、用小小的贴心,为别人制造惊喜
Rule 11 “Surprise others by performing random acts of kindness. Go out of your way to do something surprisingly kind and generous for someone at least once a month.”
12、改同学试卷时要特别谨慎
Rule 12 “Occasionally we may grade each other’s papers as a group. When grading other students’ papers, if you give someone an incorrect grade, whether it is higher or lower than they deserve, the amount the grade differs from the actual grade will be deducted from your paper. The only marks you are allowed to make on others’ papers are an “X” and the number they got incorrect.”
“给其他同学的试卷判分时,如果比实际分数高了或低了,高出或低出的分数将在你本人的试卷中扣除。”
“给其他同学的试卷判分时,如果比实际分数高了或低了,高出或低出的分数将在你本人的试卷中扣除。”
13、全班一起念课文时,要看着正念的一字一句
Rule 13 “When we read together in class, you must follow along. If I call on you to read, you must know exactly where we are and begin to read immediately”
“每当给孩子们念书的时候,我会感情饱满、精力充沛、表现力丰富地去读,我会全身心地进入角。”克拉克先生还根据角不断变换各种嗓音,做各种动作。“这种方法使整个阅读的过程充满了乐趣,同时也告诉孩子们,阅读是件多么令人着迷的事情。”
“每当给孩子们念书的时候,我会感情饱满、精力充沛、表现力丰富地去读,我会全身心地进入角。”克拉克先生还根据角不断变换各种嗓音,做各种动作。“这种方法使整个阅读的过程充满了乐趣,同时也告诉孩子们,阅读是件多么令人着迷的事情。”
“如果我看到那个学生在我们读书的时候眼睛每盯着那一页,或者我叫一个学生接着读,他却不知道我们刚才读到哪里了,那么这个学生的名字就会被记在黑板上。”
习惯成自然,以后孩子们集中注意力的能力会很高的吧。
习惯成自然,以后孩子们集中注意力的能力会很高的吧。
14、以完整的句子回答所有的问题
lesson是什么意思中文Rule 14 “Answer all questions with a complete sentence. For example, if the question asks, “What is the capital of Russia?” you should respond by writing, “The capital of Russia is Moscow.” Also, in conversation with others, it is important to use complete sentences out of respect for the person’s question. For example, if a person asks, “How are you?” instead of just responding by saying, “Fine,” you should say, “I’m doing fine, thank you. How about yourself?”
第一复述问题并给出答案,第二给出主要理由,第三展开说明理由,最后重复问题并给出答案结束。克拉克先生要求学生用这样的方式回答问题,锻炼学生的语言表达能力和写作能力。
第一复述问题并给出答案,第二给出主要理由,第三展开说明理由,最后重复问题并给出答案结束。克拉克先生要求学生用这样的方式回答问题,锻炼学生的语言表达能力和写作能力。
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